DEAR ANNIE: Eight years ago, my husband of 28 years divorced me, after I had discovered evidence on my computer of him having multiple affairs. Before our divorce was final, my soon-to-be ex visited a mail-order bride overseas and brought her back to our home. He wanted to bring her to my oldest’s wedding, but my oldest said no. My ex has since married and moved out of state, and three of our four children have moved far away to the East and West Coasts, except for the oldest, who, with his wife, lives an hour away from me. I am on disability and living in income-based housing, and I do not ha…
