Dear Anna, Here’s the deal. I’m a professional and career-driven woman with all of the etiquette, style and hygiene that is needed for a professional woman. My boyfriend, whom I love dearly, is … not as polished as me. He does not have the same table manners or etiquette. Let me clarify — he is not a caveman! Rather, he is someone whose comfort level is not at a formal dinner, working your silverware from the outside in. He is a no-frills kind of guy and does not place value on artifice or even pay much attention to the fact he may not have stylish jeans, shoes or haircuts. Instead he is the m…