Dear Annie: My grandson was the victim of hazing incidents in the locker room at his private school. It went on for more than a month. Someone made videos of parts of it, and the entire school saw the videos. The perpetrator was asked to withdraw from his school (not expelled). The detective who investigated told my daughter that he had never dealt with a school so tight-lipped about such an incident. The athletic director apologized to my grandson, but not the coach or the school principal. The school chaplain talked to my grandson in a short one-on-one session. No one talked to the team memb…