DEAR ANNIE: My question concerns the fact that I received a heart icon on my profile on a dating website that I joined. I am new at this. He is a widower, and I want to reply by thanking him for the heart and then send a message. Should I ask him a question regarding his profile? I’m not very good at beginning a conversation; I’m somewhat shy. I have never pursued a man, and being on the website, I feel like we (the women) are pursuing men as well. What do you think? — Online Dating DEAR ONLINE DATING: As a woman in 2022, it would be totally appropriate for you to heart him if you want to hea…