DEAR ANNIE: I have created an uncaring, selfish husband. On our 40th wedding anniversary, my husband didn’t say happy anniversary or even get me a card. We agreed not to get each other gifts, but I did get him a card and wish him a happy anniversary. His response to me was, “Yeah.” When he had said he hadn’t gotten me a card, I said that was okay but that I really was hoping he would take the time to let me know how he feels about me. I have suggested marriage counseling, but his reply is that it will just lead to divorce. I do love him and want our marriage to work, but I am feeling that I am…
