By Veronika Bondarenko New York’s Rochester was identified took the top spot as the most neighborly city in the country. Many want the kind of neighbor who will stop by with fresh-baked cookies, offer gardening tips and take out the mail while they’re away — a thing that, if you live in an urban mecca like New York, is just as likely as finding a spacious apartment that’s available and within budget. In honor of National Neighbor Day on Sept. 28, self-storage company Neighbor.com identified Rochester in the Finger Lakes region of New York state as the most neighborly city in the country. The s…